The Metropolitan Police’s latest cybercrime summary reveals the staggering amount was reported in January 2025 alone.
This alarming figure has prompted a fresh warning from Bromley Trading Standards, urging people to be aware of the dangers of online dating.
The popularity of dating apps has soared, with millions of people using them to find love and companionship.
Unfortunately, not everyone on these platforms is genuine.
Fraudsters are using fake profiles to manipulate people’s emotions and steal their money.
These criminals are sophisticated and have no qualms about exploiting people’s vulnerabilities.
They build relationships quickly and then move the conversation to other messaging platforms once they are confident their target is hooked.
They often use a range of excuses to avoid meeting in person, such as being stuck overseas, dealing with a family emergency, or having an issue with their business.
Once they have gained their victim’s trust, they start asking for money, promising to pay it back as soon as they can.
However, their true intention is to take as much money as possible.
Bromley Trading Standards has issued advice on how to protect yourself from falling victim to these scams.
The key is to stay on the dating website you are using and not be lured into continuing the relationship elsewhere.
Never send money to someone you have not met in person and be extremely wary of anyone asking you to transfer money on their behalf.
It’s also important to do your own research on the person.
Check if they are members of any other social media sites and try to confirm what they are telling you about themselves, such as where they work or live.
Profile pictures can be deceiving too, as they may have been taken from elsewhere on the internet.
A reverse image search on websites like www.tineye.com or www.reverse.photos can help verify their authenticity.
It’s also advised to talk to family and friends for advice, even if the fraudster is asking you to keep the relationship secret.
If you suspect you have been a victim of romance fraud, report it to Action Fraud on 0300 123 2040 or via their website.
You can also seek advice from Citizens Advice on 0808 223 1133 or their website.
For those tricked into sending money by bank payment, the UK Finance Authorised Push Payment Fraud guidance offers more information on recovering lost money.
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News website also has a practical support guide on romance fraud.
For general information about scams in various languages, visit the Friends Against Scams website.
Bromley Trading Standards provides the latest scam alerts and warnings, which people can sign up for on the Bromley Council website.
They also run a fair-trader directory, helping you find a safe and reliable trader.
With the rise in online dating fraud, it’s crucial to stay vigilant and protect yourself from becoming a victim.
The loss of nearly £1 million in a single month is a stark reminder of the dangers lurking in the world of online dating.
In a world where technology plays a significant role in our lives, it’s important to remember that not everyone we meet online has good intentions.
By following the advice from Bromley Trading Standards, you can help protect yourself from falling victim to these heartless scams.
Stay safe, stay informed, and always be cautious when it comes to your personal and financial information online.
